Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Of strange packages in strange places...

Hi all,







Dangerous criminal on the loose...


Our new Army friend!

I ate SO MUCH MEAT this week. So much I think I broke that one Word of Wisdom stipulation that everyone living in Idaho seems to forget about. I definitely did not eat it sparingly. There are meat buffets here. I am not kidding. Meat BUFFETS. Incidentally the word for missionary is really close to the word for fatty pig meat, so when we tell people we're seongyosa's they get really excited because they think we said samgyeopsar's. Then they realize what we're saying and they aren't as excited. 

Anyways.

Monday: PDAY~ We finally made it to the beach! We went to 망상 which is a huge tourist destination. It was so weird feeling sand between my toes. It was really cloudy and everyone was wearing weird clothes but it still felt a little like California. It's so strange to think that my family sees the same ocean I do! We took some pictures, and then this lifeguard came over and was really excited to meet Americans. Then we told him we were missionaries and he suddenly remembered some responsibilities he had to do.

Tuesday we tried walking to the same beach we had gone to Monday. There had been a lot of people on the road then. Tuesday there was NO ONE. We wandered in the mists and forests of Korea and then came out and had no idea where we were. We saw signs that said 'Busan'--like a lot of them -- and we thought we were in Busan Mission for a little bit. So we were a little freaked out. But then this sketchy grandpa motioned us onto a bus and somehow we got home. We were in Donghae the whole time. Donghae, as it turns out, is basically Narnia. You THINK you're going into the forest and somehow you end up by the ocean. 
We ate so much meat. We came home for a bit after and literally just lay on the floor groaning in pain. Truly Korean missionaries suffer.

Wednesday our District Leader gave SUCH a good devotional! He talked about living below our privileges. We all have so many blessings we can take advantage of. I've been studying David A Bednar's talks recently and he talks a lot about how our morning prayers are a continuation of our nighttime prayers. If we live life from prayer to prayer wouldn't that be an amazing thing? 

We also visited a furniture shop lady and she talked a lot about arranged marriage. That was one of the first words I learned in Korea. A lot of people immigrate here and get married. It's sad -- they're usually pretty miserable.

Thursday we visited every single branch member in Donghae. Granted, it's not huge, but Donghae is, and the members are spread out all over the place. Also, that day it was simultaneously the hottest day of the year AND raining like crazy. I felt so sweaty and gross and greasy. We were on a bus and this woman sat next to me. I felt guilty but I really did not want to talk to her. I felt so disgusting, and it felt like I would do more for the church by NOT being the first missionary she ever talked to!

But then something strange happened in front of us. There was this strange old man with a strange old coat holding strange packages. He booted a younger college guy right out of his seat and tumbled into it himself. He fussed around and got situated. Then he tapped the man in front of him and thrust a package into his hands, gesturing for him to untie the plastic strings. The man did so with some sideways glances, obviously not sure why he was doing so. He finally unknotted it and handed it back. In return the man pulled out a loaf of bread and handed it to him. The other man was so delighted!

I realized we don't always know why God sends us to people or places, or why he asks us to do weird things. But when we do them it inevitably brings blessings we don't expect. So I talked to the lady and we had an amazing discussion, and I gave her a Book of Mormon. She was so interested in modern prophets. I had no idea she would have this interest when I started talking to her, but when I untied the package there was something amazing inside.

Friday we did an exchange and had some amazing things happen. I went with Sister Evans, our STL, to Wonju. We had just started 전도 with a woman crossing the street when I heard this big, deep voice say "Hello, Sisters!" I looked behind us...and then looked up. There was a six foot six white man standing behind us. He was SO TALL. Normally I would have been a little unsettled but he had said “sisters", which is a term most people obviously don't use. I talked to him while Sister Evans kept 전도 ing and learned his name is Joseph, and that he's stationed here with the army. He's a member of the church with a cute little family living in Idaho that he hasn't seen for 15 months. He hasn't been able to find a church building since that time. So when he saw us walk past he immediately did a double take. In his words..."White girls? Wearing SKIRTS? Must be the sister missionaries". So we took him to the church building and introduced him to the elders. The miracle was that our bus had been late. Buses in Korea are NEVER late! But because it was we were able to walk past right when he looked up. The next day he was able to go to a music concert with us and he was so happy to hear church music!

Saturday: We ate MORE meat. And went to this really awesome opera concert! The guy was amazing! He had a huge voice and range and I died a little inside because it was SO BEAUTIFUL and I never thought I would MISS opera that MUCH. His cute daughters played violin too. It was really special. Then I got back with Sister Murdock and we complained about how much we had eaten. 

Sunday was really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really hot. We walked to church at 9 and then spent ten minutes just standing in front of the air conditioner. We do streetboarding on Sundays and no one really wanted to, I think, but we did it anyways. I said a silent prayer as we prepared for it that somehow we would be able to withstand the heat. The moment we walked out there was this gentle breeze. Strange shadows were conveniently everywhere. We got to our streetboarding site only to find that a huge tent had been erected there, casting a huge shadow we were able to streetboard under. God answers prayers. He really does.

This was a really long letter...sorry! If I can't answer everyone's individual emails please know I love you all and would if I could! 

Thanks for all the support and love!
xoxo
Sister Bell

Sunday, July 19, 2015

Tattoos, typhoons, and trifles...

Ocean view from Donghae
Hi All!

Another week has come and gone. I still don't know Korean but like that's okay. You don't really learn how to speak Korean in Korea anyways. You learn like a weird form of sign language. I'm really good at expressing that I really, really want to buy that weird food. 

Dried stingrays

I'm going to start with the weird stuff today and end with the spiritual stuff. There was, again, a Kim Jong-Un sized amount of weird stuff. 

So we were on our way to an appointment and these four guys start yelling and coming after us. Normally we would get freaked out but since we only have 1 progressing investigator it was like, "okay, we'll do anything"—maybe they had a referral. We were in a pretty crowded place so it wasn't dangerous anyways (love you mom). They caught up to us and then asked us to rank them in order of the most fashionable. One of them had these rad tattoo sleeves and we ranked him third, and he high fived us then pulled us in for a bro hug. Almost. We did like a limbo lean and got out of it. We ALMOST gave 4 referrals to the elders! But unfortunately they didn't come to church like they'd promised:(
I think we'll all get over it though.

Mukho view

We went to this area called Mukho to do some kakahoho (door to door) and let me tell ya, I've seen things. We got invited into like 4 houses because it was so hot! Technically right now it's the hottest time of summer, but it's also a typhoon so it's kind of raining too. The weather is a little confused. Anyway, people gave us tons of food and drinks, which was cool, then didn't listen to our message, which was sad. There was this guy with a really bad hangover hanging out his window so we gave him a Book of Mormon and talked about the Word of Wisdom. There was one house I knocked on and the gate was a little open, so I peeked inside...and there was a 90 year old woman going to the bathroom right in front of her screen door. She saw me and stood up (yep) and started yelling. I ran and Sister Murdock, who hadn't see it, was like "Sister Bell you have to finish!" Bless her.

Sister Murdock at the ocean


This one Sister, Sister Kim, came and stayed with us for a couple days. She was really funny! She wrote us super cute notes and made us food. We ate a TON during those couple days, including something called poppingsu that's made of ice and bean powder. It was SO good! She also told me that the Korean name my Korean trainer gave me actually also means Silver Gun as well as Great Blessing, so that's kind of cool. She also told Sister Murdock to stop waving her drumsticks. We're still not sure what that means but it's probably good to keep in mind.

Elders Armstrong, Brantley, Theurer, & Jones
We had a scripture battle with our elders as well. We were a little late getting in and we apologized to the district leader. He sent us this:

Alma 42:29 And now, my son, desire that ye should let these things trouble‍ you no more, and only let your sins trouble you, with that trouble which shall bring you down unto repentance.
So we sent:
Lamentations 1:20 Behold, Lordfor am‍ in distress: my bowels‍ are troubled; mine heart is turned within me; for have grievously rebelledabroad the sword‍ bereaveth, at home there is‍ as death.
And they sent: 
D&C 121:10 Thou art not yet as Job; thy friends‍ do not contend against thee, neither charge thee with transgression, as they did Job.
So of course we sent:
Lamentations 4:18 They hunt our steps, that we cannot go in our streets: our end is near, our days are fulfilled; for our end‍ is come.
And they sent:
Mormon 9:Behold, say unto you that ye would be more miserable to dwell with holy and just God, under consciousness of your filthiness‍ before him, than ye would to dwell with the damned‍ souls in hell.
So we sent:
1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjugation (because we're sister missionaries and we were dying over this verse).
And then we won. See, everybody. Missionaries can have fun. 
Okay! Spiritual time!

I read Exodus 14 the other day and it's all about the children of Israel escaping Egypt. In verse 10 it says they were sore afraid. Fear is the enemy of faith, and without faith -- a firm belief that God will be with us the whole way even if we can't see in front of us -- we can't move forward. The Israelites were confronted by a huge ocean, it's true, but they couldn't move forward because they were paralyzed by fear. 

In Exodus 14:13 Moses tells them to fear not. When they let go of their fear, they were able to move forward despite impossible odds. I know the same is true for us. If we can forget the things holding us back, and remember that the Lord is on our side -- and that in fact He has gone through all the hard things for us so that He can know how to help us -- then we can go farther than we think possible.

I love missionary work. No matter how hard it is I love it! I love this gospel and I love sharing it and seeing the difference it makes in peoples' lives. Our investigator the other night accepted a baptismal date and, since she moved, is still meeting with the missionaries. Our other investigator has accepted Joseph Smith as a prophet. I know this gospel can bless the lives of everyone who accepts it.

xoxo
Sister Bell



A cool pinwheel path

We found the tree of life!

A puppy cafe--pet the puppies and all your stress will melt away!

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Seven random observations...
























(Post date: 12 July 2015)

It's been another crazy week! Donghae is literally paradise. Our branch is amazing. I LOVE my companion!

So I'm sorry all my stories are so weird...next time it will be really spiritual I promise! But so many weird things happened this week! 

1. Last week I forgot to include this: so we met this old homeless lady at a bus stop. She's SO old and SO cute...she offered us this weird drink and we couldn't just say no. She kept telling us it wasn't alcohol. It wasn't...but we're not sure what it was. Sister Murdock pretended to drink it but then the lady wanted her paper cups back, so we had to drink it all. I actually drank it. Sister Murdock threw it up in a sewer. 

2.Our power went out momentarily. When the ceiling light flickered back on there was a pause, then Sister Murdock started reciting the first vision. When the light rested upon me...I still laugh about it.

3. Members here -- I love them unconditionally --  are so interesting. 

4. Yesterday (Sunday) the gospel doctrine teacher was speaking rapid fire Korean. She shot a question at an elder. He thought she said "What's the first thing that pops into your head?" He panicked and said monkey in Korean. She actually asked "What's the most important thing in your life?" The members were all really confused. It was amazing.

5. The members commented on how much I ate. When I finished they asked why I wasn't eating very much. 

6.Our zone commitment this week is to give the baptismal commitment at least once a day. It's yielded some incredible miracles. After zone conference, we 전도'ed like mad but everyone was too busy to talk. It was raining, we had no umbrellas, we were drenched and cold. But there's something about enduring rain with a smile that makes the miracles pour like the sky. We had ten minutes left before daily planning and still had not found anyone to extend the commitment to. So we said a prayer in the middle of the downtown. Then, without saying a word, we both started walking the same direction, towards an out of the way bus stop. We found a woman there - the first thing she rather angrily said was "I attend church" but we were able to have an amazing conversation about baptism. It was a total miracle!
The second miracle was that we found four new investigators! They're four middle school students. We taught them the whole first lesson...they paid really good attention! 

7. I got to go on an exchange with my favorite missionary in the world, Sister Seo Jueun. She saved my mission first transfer and now she's my STL!! She's also one of the funniest people on the planet. A brief quote: "He went to gundae (army) and now he looks like burned potato." We had a lesson where the investigator just completely opened up and told us why she felt like she couldn't get baptized and it was so amazing. She started crying. She also told me my Korean was perfect so I also started crying. But before we had spiritual time we had English time, where we taught her English. It's a lot of weird grammar words so I had no idea what was going on. But Sister Seo would talk rapid fire Korean with her. Occasionally there would be some English thrown in. 
"Mm hmm. Fire station."
"네. Evergreen."
"Ah. Piano store."
"Freelancer."
I kid you not, those are the actual random English words she said. I wrote them down. I love Korea.
She taught me a TON during exchange. One of my favorite things she said was how if your faith is at a level five, your actions should be at level ten, and then your faith can grow to level ten.

Love you all! I promise I'll send normal stuff next week…

xoxo
Sister Bell

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Beautiful coastal Donghae...

Beautiful Donghae on the Sea of Japan

It has been quite a week in Donghae! Basically I never want to leave. In Seoul you can actually see the air because it is so tainted. Here everything smells wonderful (except for the sketchy grandma we sat next to...more on that later…)

First off, my companion is SO darling. Sister Murdock
Sister Murdock with a bap burger
from Bountiful, Utah. She has an amazing sense of humor and a really strong dedication to missionary work. Donghae is a hard place to serve because not a lot of people accept the gospel here. Even the elders are having kind of a rough go. But we've already seen a lot of miracles. Donghae is crazytown when it comes to miracles. (Also it's just kind of crazy town.)

Monday: We had family home evening. Only one person came....but he definitely was enough. His name is Kim Young Min and he is crazy in the best way. Put it this way...when you go knee to knee with an old Korean man who is half Mormon, half Buddhist, a former monk with Word of Wisdom problems, and has a mysterious tumor on the back of his neck he can't explain, you know you're headed for an adventure. He's an amateur art therapist so he had me draw a volcano, a house, and a tree. From that he discerned that I like mysterious men, cloudy days, and suffer from an overactive imagination and possibly hallucinations, and that I have a great deal of inner wrath. (He told the humblest elder I know that he's a megalomaniac so I don't know how accurate it is.)

Tuesday: Probably the highlight was meeting this one girl. We're not sure what her name is but she has our number and calls ALL the time. Like 5 am. She keeps telling me I look like Anne of Green Gables. Then she tells me I look like a supermodel. (But she told my companion she was more wonderful than me. Talk about mixed signals.) She keeps asking us to vacation to Japan with her. She also has tried to give us a lot of gifts: pens, papers, receipts, and enough medication to kill a full grown bull elephant. We're not sure what it treats but I don't think she's taking it.

Wednesday: We were all settled in to have our favorite meal for lunch...but then we got this prompting to go to Samcheok. We didn't really want to go, but we did. We ended up meeting these awesome people on a bus, including a grandma that literally proselyted for us and gave us candy. She told everyone who we were and what we were doing and that they should listen to us. Bless her. 

Sister Sonksen

Thursday: We met our new mission presidents!!!!!! They are super cool. President and Sister Sonksen are from Ohio and are SO awesome.

Sister Sonksen is working really hard to learn Korean. They gave us a really good training. One of the things he said that I liked was 'Carry the love of the Savior in your eyes'. I just thought that was really beautifully phrased. 

Friday: We met a lot of grandmas that told us we were pretty then got on us for being single, and tried to set us up with their sons. 

Saturday: Our BIG miracle! We set up a TON of appointments this week. SO many. But every single one fell through. I haven't met any of our investigators yet. We've been proselyting like crazy and have gotten a lot of numbers and given a lot of Books of Mormon out, but no dice. But Saturday we were proselyting and we were like...okay, one more person. So we talked to this nice high school student. It turns out she has already met the missionaries and really likes them! We asked when she had time and she was like "Right now". So we taught the whole Restoration on the street! It was a much needed miracle.

Sunday: we cried in the kitchen when we heard President Packer died. His talk from general conference gave me a lot of strength and happiness, and I would read all of his Ensign talks over and over in personal study. He really was an amazing man. He will be missed :( 

We also met this lady who runs a 'massage shop'. Yes, we're concerned too. But she is SO nice! She was abused by her husband and the missionaries visited her every other day in the hospital. She still remembers the cookies they made her. She referred her daughter to us too and gave us earrings and a lot of food. Then she got in a strange car with a strange man and zoomed off. Yes. We are a little concerned. She REALLY needs the gospel.

It's been a fantastic week, and after email we're going to something called a 'meat party' and there is no way that could be bad so I'm super excited. 

Love you all! 
xoxo

Bell Chamae
Romans 15:13

Sister Murdock's desk

kimbap and deokbogi

We haven't really had a good beach Pday yet :( we'll make it there someday!

Me and Sister Seo, who basically  changed my mission first transfer. She's SO cute!

With Sisters Coates and Jones...MTC reunion!

We ordered cheesy sweet potato chicken :) They deliver food for free -- you always see motorcycles zipping around.

With sisters Murdock (my companion) and Gwak. Love them SO much!

A nice recent convert from my last area gave these to my zone leader to give to me at transfers. He was super nice! And they came in pretty handy!

I made Sister Murdock a Fourth of July present :) We love Korea but...America forever!